Wow... I am now a card-carrying member of this thread out of necessity.
Maybe I'm a very small minority but I rarely saw exhausted or even much tired before, the game was perfect for me. Now after updating to .05 I am like most of the people who started this thread and my families are always exhausted and moving slow when I try to play after getting home from work. I now regularly see energy levels with barely any registered color on the bar and that never happened before.. never.
I apologize to those of you I must have aggravated in wondering what the issue was, I didn't realize it affected gameplay like this.
At any rate, I've tried pausing when they're elated in the morning, and when I come back to it in the evening they are often exhausted with absolutely no energy whatsoever. I didn't think that was possible... ? And no, there is not a possibility of someone using my computer while I'm at work. I've also started new families on another computer with a totally new install and it's the same as my existing families. 5 generations of very deliberate pacing and I have absolutely no desire to play anymore because it is so different than at first.
I love the night time activities and being there when the parents call the children to brush their teeth and to go to bed, so switching day/night is not really an option I'm willing to do. I don't feel like I should be forced to play it that way, either.
To me it was more realistic and much more customizable for the collective types of gamers when the actions were trainable to the individual's playing time. I think a lot of folks gave up on training them soon and pushed for a fix that wasn't necessary. It was fine for lots of us before, so it obviously wasn't a bug. The tired/exhausted issues were many times found with those who are home much of the time and playing the game for hours and hours on end. Granted that wasn't always the case, but it was much of the time.
Anyway, I just wanted to voice the minority opinion... not everyone works a standard weekday like is pretty much required for the families in the game now, and it's not realistic. For people who work at home like the families in VF, schedules are self-made and we should be able to play the game effectively no matter what timeframe we choose.
Happy gaming!